One of the tools of developing mental toughness is physical
conditioning. Done correctly, physical conditioning gives a mental edge specific to
self-defense. Fighters know that conditioning in itself is a weapon, not just in the
physical sense but also in the mental sense. In a conflict a well-conditioned person is
calmer than a poorly conditioned one, whose confidence is undermined by observing an
unfazed, relaxed, unfatigued opponent. The cool confidence of the well-conditioned
opponent grows as the confidence of the poorly conditioned combatant wanes.... And a calm
demeanor, expressionless face, and lack of signs of stress are disconcerting to an
aggressor. Here is more on the use of physical conditioning for both physical fighting
prowess and mental toughness....
Under stress, you will revert to your habits. Habits are formed by
repetitions. The more repetitions, the more stable the habit. If your practice is
insufficient, or worse, inadequate, under stress you will likely show bad habits. So, to
show good habits in the face of danger, you may either practice so well that your good
habits won't fail, or ... you may reduce your stress response. This can be done through
physical conditioning. Yes, conditioning, by reducing your stress
response, may compensate for insufficient practice (not frequent enough, not enough
repetitions).
Therefore, the best way to ensure that you use your most effective
tactics in self-defense is to (a) practice them until they become your nature and (b)
train in such a manner that you are not stressed in an “argument” or while under
assault.
In striking arts, such as boxing, karate, or taekwondo, long sets
of punches, kicks, and combinations are necessary, both for working all the kinks out of
the techniques and for ensuring that these techniques will work when fighters are tired or
stressed. Similarly, in grappling arts, one has to have the stamina to do hundreds of
fit-ins for throws or takedowns during each practice. That is why serious instructors of
combat sports and martial arts require students to get in shape before teaching them
techniques.
Good physical condition allows doing as many correct repetitions
of techniques as it takes to make them effective and reliable. There are more benefits to
being in good shape: staying relaxed when fighting (people with low muscular endurance
tense more and expend more energy than those with high endurance), the ability to take
hard shots on the muscles with less bruising than poorly conditioned people, and
self-confidence—bullies find it hard to intimidate people who know they can outdo and
outlast the bullies. But when the bullies sense a target's stress, which means weakness,
they grow bold.
Remember: A calm demeanor, expressionless face, and lack of signs
of stress are disconcerting to an aggressor. And rational physical conditioning, even
nonspecific to fighting, will take you a long way towards reducing your stress response.
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Symptoms of stress are the same as those
of poor physical conditioning—excessive tension, shallow breathing, sweating,
nervousness, being easily startled, poor focus, poor concentration. Such signs tell the
attacker that the mark is easy. These signs mean low confidence of the mark, and observing
them raises the confidence of the attacker.
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Self-Defense
Moves
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Mental
Toughness
For self-defense moves to work under stress they must
be based on your natural, instinctive reactions, require little strength and limited range
of motion, and be proven in fighting experience.
To defend against weapons you have to know how they
are used. Also—every stick has two ends ... the weapon of attack may become a weapon of
defense in your hand ...
Staying cool under pressure is more important for
self-defense than being physically fit and technically skilled. If you can't control your
mind what can you control?
To learn mental techniques that let you calmly face any threat and act
rationally in the heat of a fight, click here.